臨尾香

唔希望會發生既事, 終於都發生咗!

last nite (36w2d), 發現個肚生咗d妊娠紋 (at lower abdomen), 好紅的, 一點點 (大點), 唔知可唔可以話一撻撻呢, 總之.......... 好核突.......... 好恐佈..........

係victor發現的 (我成日都叫佢幫我檢查住) 但前幾日都冇嫁, 估唔到尋日再check就有喇, 佢仲影埋相俾我睇, 然後我忍唔住留咗幾滴眼淚...... 因為實在估唔到係咁肉酸................

我一直以為自己可以偉大到"絕不介意", 應該可以接受得來, 我成日叫佢check住, 雖然冇, 但我都同自己講: "遲d就會有嫁喇!" 我希望早d令自己會接受到, 同埋希望俾個心理準備佢....... 但當d紋真係走咗出黎既時候, 原來真係幾咁難以接受........

就只係剩番12日, 點解連呢12日都守唔住呢??? 呢d係咪叫"臨尾香"???

我有諗過影張相post上黎, 但又真係有點兒過唔到自己, 如果post咗上黎呢度, 我諗我呢度要關門大吉, 唔可以再share俾朋友睇, 免得嚇親人呢.............

王永慶的一席話

王永慶的一席話

一根火柴棒價值不到一毛錢, 一棟房子價值數百萬元 ..

但是一根火柴棒卻可以摧毀一棟房子

可見微不足道的潛在破壞力, 一旦發作起來, 其攻堅滅頂的力量, 無物能禦~

要疊一百萬張骨牌, 需費時一個月

但倒骨牌卻只消十幾秒鐘

要累積成功的實業, 需耗時數十載

但要倒閉 ,卻只需一個錯誤決策.

要修養被尊敬的人格, 需經過長時間的被信任

但要人格破產卻只需要做錯一件事.

一根火柴棒, 是什麼東西呢?

它就是下列四項:

1.. 無法自我控制的情緒

2. 不經理智判斷的決策

3. 頑固不冥的個性.

4. 狹隘無情的心胸

檢查看看,我們隨身攜帶幾根火柴棒?

~ 共勉之 ~

Week 36

New pictures of my big belly~~

it's week 36 today, and only 14 days more to go, Aiden will be coming out to this world!
only 3.5 days to go, my Maternity Leave will start!

Sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

~~~excited~~~

very ugly belly button~~~ very black!!!

bb床+小1插曲

終於響上星期五晚收咗張bb床(屋企果張), 附送小插曲一則~~

話說間網上商店個老闆自己親自送貨, 咁佢個老婆就一齊黎送貨啦, 老闆娘中途發現個收貨人個名(即係我)同佢一個舊同學一樣, then佢就以為我係佢果個舊同學仲帶埋隻狗上黎算同我相認......

而我諗住收貨呢d咁簡單既工作, 交俾老公應該應付得來, 我咪去沖涼囉..... 點知沖沖下涼電話響, 個老闆話去到門口ring bell冇人應門...... 咁我只好在沖到一半既情況下赤條條咁走出去半開房門叫我老公去收貨...... 點知聽到個女仔話識得我, 叫周寶珊............. 周寶珊???? oh sorry, 我真係冇印像有個舊同學叫周寶珊, 就算有呀, 都唔慌熟啦...... 而且當時既環境係我沖涼沖到一半, 仲要赤條條, 唔通我走出黎同你相認咩~~~ 我嗌出去話我唔識得一個舊同學叫周寶珊喎.... 點知個女的仲話: 吓, 唔識? 你扮嘢呀???

嘩..... 真係火都黎埋, 我駛扮嘢?? 最攞命係我老公竟然一口咬定果位小姐係我同學, 仲走黎兇我話人地真係講得出你個全名喎..... 大佬呀, 我上網買嘢係provide full name既, 咁知我全名有咩咁奇啫..... 佢仲係都要話果個係我同學, 仲好似想我出去同佢相認咁...... 真係想死~~~

我都有你冇理, 沖埋果半個涼先....

沖完涼出黎打番俾個老闆, 再同佢老婆對話....... 原來佢真係有個舊同學同我個中文名一模一樣, 最估佢唔到係連英文名都一樣........... 真係幾咁萬中無一..... (我個名唔係陳大文喎, 係連慧雯吖嘛, 係咪好萬中無一先, 可能未必全部字一樣, 但英文譯音一樣囉)

呢d咁既"巧合", 都真係唔怪得佢會有咁強大而且一睇就覺得"一定係"既反應........ 我仲問佢係邊間學校既同學呀, 佢話"利記", 我仲問佢"利記"即係咩, 我心諗我幼稚園到中學都係"德記"喎..... 真係太太太太太太搞笑..........

最搞笑係我老公, 佢只係不停咁強調對方好斯文, well咁斯文唔可以認錯人既咩?? 做乜乜都一定係個老婆錯先得, 人地認錯人唔得嫁咩...... 激死人喇~~~

當晚我都急不及待咁要砌張床, 砌就砌咗, 不過可以adjust高度果邊個欄較上較落有問題, 唔知我係咪做錯咗一d步驟呢??? 今日都係要舅舅黎fix番.... 真係唔好意思喇, 仲諗住唔麻煩佢添, 見佢上次砌得咁easy......

留給最愛的說話

小寶/aiden,

aiden 係daddy同mommy為你改既第一個名, 小寶係後期先叫, 因為mommy想你個中文名裡面有個"寶"字, means 你係mama既寶貝!!!

仲有唔夠3個星期, exact d係18日, 你就會降臨呢個世界上! 我同daddy都非常期待呢一日!! 由呢一日開始, 我地所做既一切, 都會以你行先! 我地承諾過對方, 要給予你最多最豐富既愛, 但並不等如我地會縱容你! 響你長大既過程裡面, 可能你會發現我地對你好嚴厲, 其實我地既出發點都係為你好, 我地希望你响discipline既環境之下長大! 希望你從小能夠培養出良好既生活習慣, 做人宗旨, 響將來你成長既過程之中有絕對既能力去照顧自己! 呢個係我既目標!

我唔需要你有好大既成就, 我只希望你會係一個身心健康, 正直善良既人! 而且時常保持笑容, 樂觀開朗!! 人既一生係冇完美, 人生總會有好多挫折, 我好希望你將來遇到挫敗既時候, 你可以樂觀, 正面咁去面對!

到咗你teenager既階段, 可能你已經唔會再認同我同daddy所講既嘢, 可能你已經有你自己既諗法, 可能你會覺得我好out, 或者好長氣, Fine, 我會明白既! 只希望你會記住一點 - you're my son and I'll love you forever!!

響你成長既階段, 你會不斷認識新朋友, 朋友有好有壞, 各有特性, 你一定要嚴選你既朋友, mom會提醒自己唔應該去干涉你識朋友, 但你一定要make sure you know how to protect yourself in all ways! 十年後既社會會變成點我真係無法想像, 但今天2009年成個社會既風氣就已經係好差, 青少年問題非常嚴重, 但我同你daddy都積極地向好果方面諗, our son will do well!! 希望你識得分辦是非好壞, 知道自己應該做乜同唔應該做乜!

到你再大少少, 你會識女朋友, 女朋友只係你人生之中既過客, 得失唔好睇得咁重!! 你將會有好多好多個女朋友, 但我希望你係一個接一個, 要尊重女性, 唔可以隨便傷害人! 娶老婆唔駛咁早, 首先你要有能力照顧自己既生活, then你要確定你能夠提供優良既生活俾你既伴侶, 最後先好考慮同居或者結婚! Daddy Mommy 都商量過, 當你長大成人, 成家立室, 我地會俾你十足既空間, 唔需要你&你既伴侶同我地一齊住一齊生活, 但我仍然希望你會時常番黎屋企探我, 因為我會每分鐘都掛住你!!

好似一講就講到三十年後, but time really flies......

CheckUp - 35w1d

This was the 2nd last checkup before aiden comes out. The last one will be on Nov 4, it will be 37w1d and I'll have C-section on my 38w1d, as scheduled.

Aiden is growing up rapidly, and he weighs 3kg, means 6.6 lbs today............. his tummy was measured as week 38 (wow.... 3 weeks larger than normal, a bit "too much")

Victor went with me today, he was shocked when he saw aiden again (last time was 27week taking the 4D pictures), he grabbed my arm when he saw aiden on the screen at the first capture.........
after we walked out the doctor's room, we sat down and waited for making next appointment, he said to me that it's really a big difference in 2 months..... he can't believe that aiden is so big now and he can see aiden's face clearly (but I don't, indeed), I always think that it needs hugh imagination!!! Anyway, I can see from his eyes that he feels pretty touching, I was surprised about what he said, and really really don't know if he would really cry at the time he sees aiden coming out........

Conversation like this:
Victor: 個衰仔真係大個咗好多呀!
me: 吓?
Victor: 比起我上次見到佢, 個樣出晒黎, 仲幾靚仔添!
me: 吓? 你點睇到呀?
Victor: 你睇唔到咩? 頭先一開始果時我已經睇到晒佢成個輪廓!!
me: 吓? 加埋你d想像力咋? 我真係唔識睇喎!!!!
Victor: 你有冇搞錯呀???!!! 咁都睇唔到??????
me: 做咩呀你, 眼濕濕咁, 好感動呀?
Victor 尷尬
me: 咁都感動, 咁真係到生出黎果時你估你會唔會喊咗出黎?
Victor 點頭
我心諗: 我實喊到豬頭咁, 如果你又喊埋一份, 果張第一幅全家福真係不堪設想...........

可能我低能啦, 醫生話果度係眼咪係眼囉, 鼻咪鼻囉, 口咪口囉....... 但我真係睇唔出成個輪廓囉..... 你遲d再拎住d相問我, 我都驚我醒唔起邊度係邊度喎 haha.........

我懷疑佢係有少少冇諗到, 佢晚晚摸住, 同埋鬧住既衰仔, 原來已經咁大個, 而且仲响3個禮拜之後就會見面, 到時可以真正touch到, 仲可以擁抱到....... 其實真係未出發先興奮....... 3個禮拜咋..... 唔知我會由幾時開始失眠呢?????

Week 35

Today - week 35!

3 weeks later, I shall give birth to aiden. Count Down started......

HAHA~~ Guess how many pounds he weighs at birth?? Ummm..... I guess not less than 7.5 pounds......

Finally we picked the cot for aiden for our own home use, this one:

Minimoto cot in Expresso

Delivery on Saturday, and 舅舅 will have it installed, thanks 舅舅, this is the second one already!!

Last Sat, I bought aiden cute beddings too!

"Fun at Zoo" bedding set from MOTHERCARE - bumper, 2 bed sheets, fleece blanket & quilt

But the saleslady said that the blankets and the quilt can only be used after 1 year old....... I was wondering - then what should my baby use from new born until 1???? She responded: BABY SLEEPING BAG~~
OKEE!!! Auntie Mika had bought us one sleeping bag from Shanghai and now we have to buy one more using at our own home!! Well GROBAG again? Oh! Very Expensive!!!
Every baby is using the quilt, what's the problem of using it?????? Anyways, will go get one more sleeping bag soon...... cuz I'm running out of time!!!! I really want to get everything well prepared before my baby comes out! I have to try my best, cuz no one can help me out during my rest!!!!!

hospital bag - actually packed, but borrowed the bag to coworker for a business trip just now and have to re-pack again when she's back to HK next week.
Should I use a paper bag to put everything into it tonight first in case of preterm labor....... hope not but I'm really worrying about it now!!

aiden is watching Transformers!!

aiden's watching Transformers, and kicking like transforming inside my belly.....

After Shrek, we have Transformers.

Very Touching~~~

今日收到消息, 0911媽媽會裡面已有bb出世

第一個係吉豬b, 佢叫Shirley Tai, 懷有龍鳳胎, 之前有少少擔心b囡肺積水問題, 但都順利出生! 不過由於是早產, babies都要瞓箱同觀察....

第二個係nikki, 佢都係懷有twins, 孖仔都好健康, 仲upload咗video响youtube, 孖仔真係好似樣, 我見到個video, 超感動!

感覺到自己越來越接近開刀日子, 而家係倒數32日........ 超緊張..........

如果順產就倒數45日...... 好似揀順產拖延下個日子係咪好d呢?? 揀順產係咪會唔會好d呢??? aiya....... 到時要响度等佢出黎咪仲緊張!!!!

特別鳴謝Auntie Rita, 買咗個禮物俾aiden, 就係combi果張high chair, thank you Auntie Rita!! 希望第時學琴都有big discount咁就好喇~~~~ hahahahahaha

Updated pictures of big belly

33w2d

正面睇都好似冇乜嘢喎~~

都唔核突吖~~~ ^o^

嘩!!!! 側面真係不得了~~
好恐佈呀, 仲大個個西瓜 -_-""

Checkup on Oct 7 (33w1d)

Have Checkup today in hospital ~33w1d~
Aiden weighs 2.38kg (very nice progress)
Mommy weighs 65.8kg :(

Doctor Fok didn't say anything bad, but......
very weird......
when I pointed at the ultrasound picture and asked her what the bubble is? then she said it is umbilical cord but no need to take care of it now (哦係臍帶黎嫁不過而家唔駛理佢住) so what does it mean? I don't understand...... but I was dull and didn't ask her why she said so........ after all, I have been thinking if the umbilical cord encircled aiden's neck??????? (我成日捲風筒, 每次捲親我都响度諗..... 咁做係咪真係會令臍帶纏頸呢? - 我睇"我的低能大肚之道"裡面有提及過)
Only this made me worry, hope everything's fine with Aiden..... Luckily aiden is really active indeed and it calmed me!!

Next checkup is on Oct 21, it will be 35w1d, close to the C-Section date..... I think after next checkup, I'd have checkup once a week until C-Section........ Sooooooo Excited(Scared)!!

New pictures and video update

今日係中10月3日
中秋節!! 最開心係可以放連放兩日假...........
尋日話咗要update下個大肚腩, 今日係32w4d, 肚圍係39.5", weight 145lbs (前幾日仲係141.幾嫁咋, 重咗差唔多4lbs, 因為呢個禮拜冇乜跟餐單食, 原來真係唔得嫁! 由明天開始要跟番張餐單食先得 - 真係好唔開心囉!)
番咗媽咪度做節, 但由於下午時發現自己重咗好多, victor又開始節制我, 乜都唔食得乜都唔俾食..... 呢種感覺真係好慘! 好可憐!! 好抑鬱!!! 去做節應該要俾我放縱下先啱嫁嘛, 連食完飯個生果盤都唔食得(因為餐單係要正餐後隔1.5 hrs先到小食餐 - 即是水果), 今日媽咪個糖水仲係西米露 - 唔駛講又冇我份!!

以下係aiden既最新video, 係前日拍既!

on oct 1, 2009

32w2d

皇后月 Month of the Queen^^

一踏入十月, 距離生產既日子彷彿又走近了一截.........

尋晚同victor講, 我要做一個月既皇后(因為已經最後一個月了, 可能好多朋友都以為我已經做咗7,8個月皇后, 其實呢個諗法真係大錯特錯囉!!!)

呢個月我係乜嘢都唔會做~ 唔駛做~~ 唔需要做~~~
佢點頭示好~~

只不過, 另一方面, 踏入十月, 就係我被"禁足"既日子既開始, 咩叫"禁足"呢? 即是好似小朋友做咗錯事, 跟住父母唔俾佢出街, 佢只可以响屋企隻窗度望出去睇住其他小朋友玩咁, 就係"禁足"喇! 至於邊個要禁我足呢? 答案都呼之欲出啦, 無謂開名啦.......

今日係32w3d, 其實呢8個月 (32w=8個月少dd, 1month=4week, 1week=7days, total係224日, 除番30day/month = 7.466666666666 months.........) 唉, 越講越複習, 算啦, 總之跟本就冇十月懷胎呢回事, 雖則只係9個月度, 但時間確實係過得好快好快.......... 尤其是last 呢幾個月, 我深信呢個皇后月會過得更加快!

基本上, 心理上應該係已經ready, 但實際上, 心理上其實都仲係好慌!

victor既心情又如何呢? 呢個我更加難以捉摸! 因為佢係從來唔會(亦唔打算)表露出黎俾我睇! 一直以黎佢都係非常之咁冷靜, 但我"估"佢應該都好緊張(佢不嬲都怕死過我嫁嘛)........ 係啦, 我不嬲都冇咁細膽, 唔知點解今次會咁失威!! 唓, 唔係佢生佢緊係冇我咁驚啦^^^ 唉..... 我個思緒都開始好混亂, 諗嘢都開始唔make sense, 都係算吧啦~~

中秋節咁啱係星期六, 加埋星期日連放兩日假, 真係happy^^ 聽日等我影下個肚仔update下先!!