剪利筋後遺症

Dec 16 10am 做手術後, 11:30am回婆婆家, 之後食咗一餐奶, 食得好慢, 可能個口仲痛啦..... 食完就poopoo咗1次, d便便有d黑色添, 之後都一路有poopoo, 全個下午至夜晚total poo咗4次
Dec 17 poo咗7次, 便便有d "lim"嘢.
Dec 18 朝早已經poo咗2次, 所以都要帶佢去睇醫生, 打去醫院耳鼻喉科, 姑娘話一定唔關個手術事, 我本來係擔心佢手術前食果d藥水搞到佢敏感, 但個姑娘就好firm咁話唔會喎.... 於是就番去睇番個兒科Dr Lau, 我帶埋d便便俾佢睇, 佢話唔算好差, 佢聽下佢個肚話d腸又唔係郁得好快, 可能d腸有少少發炎, 但佢咁細都唔會開藥俾佢食, 建議種菌, 因為只係痾唔知會唔會有咩病毒或者細菌..... 或者可以幫佢轉飲豆奶試下睇下會唔會好d..... 今日全日poo咗6次
Dec 19 今日去咗買豆奶, 我諗小寶食得出唔同, 因為佢食時皺眉頭, 我估都唔多好食囉.... 今日poo咗10次
Dec 20 poo咗9次, 成個pat都紅晒, 真陰公!! 轉咗豆奶好似仲差咗, d便便水咗, 所以我同媽咪商量過都係轉番奶粉..... 但係咁樣痾法真係擔心死人, 所以都要再去睇多次醫生, 但我又唔想再睇Dr Lau, 佢好似頗求其囉, 於是上網搵下兒科醫生兼睇下評語, 搵咗一個莫子慈醫生, 網上既comment都好好
Dec 21 10am打去康健醫務中心預約睇莫醫生, 約到最快11:40am
去咗登記咗仲要等多9個先到我地睇..... 康健係大概10年前已經有, 我都有去睇過, 不過而家擴充得好勁, 去睇既人亦都好多, 好多人戴住口罩, 呢樣嘢係我最唔鐘意, 因為真係好恐佈, 好多菌, 仲有個細路响門口嘔, 嚇死我...... 好在佢開响商場入面, 媽咪可以抱小寶周圍行下, 唔駛焗响裡面等, 我就响門口等嗌名..... 9個都唔係等咗好耐, 大概12:15pm已經可以見醫生....
我同莫醫生講晒成個story, 佢問我點解要同佢去剪利筋 (佢個語氣係話俾我知我唔應該同佢做囉, 我解釋話睇過專科醫生都話佢好大機會黐利筋所以就襯佢細個做咗佢, 佢聽完冇俾反應, 亦冇話我做得啱定唔啱..... 但睇得出佢係否定我既做法囉.....) 莫醫生好細心咁同佢檢查過, 佢開咗d腸胃藥粉, 止肚痛肚風藥水俾小寶, 佢話d藥好輕, 唔會一食就止痾, 只係可以幫佢舒緩下, 佢仲建議種菌, 因為要種菌先可以確定佢裡面有冇細菌然後先可以對症下藥, 而家最驚係洛沃克病毒或者係黃金葡萄球菌, 所以我都決定要種菌! 醫生仲健議將d奶粉開稀d, 我地照做, 今日poo咗6次
Dec 22 poo咗6次, 但唔同前幾日不定時咁痾, 都係飲完奶先痾, 莫醫生話係正常, 因為一食咗奶入去條腸會移動就會刺激到佢
Dec 23 poo咗3次, 已經好番好多
Dec 24 暫時只係尋晚半夜3點幾飲完奶痾咗1次

希望小寶真係已經好番, 種菌報告出黎一切正常就好喇!!
今日係平安夜, 今年係第一年同bb一齊過christmas, 雖然佢仲咁細個, 未能夠感受到節日氣氛, 但我仍然好期待!
Aiden, Merry first Christmas!!

aiden laughs in his dream

Last nite, aiden was not having a good sleep(I thought it's because the fear of being forced during the tongue tie operation), he was awake at around 1 sth then I cuddled him a bit and tried to comfort him.....
suddenly I heard him laughing, very cute voice, I thought he was having a happy dream, haha, he suddenly laughed while I was very very tired, it ended up made me feel so sweet and awake~~
Usually he looks cool, only make some funny face expressions, and move his eyeballs in different directions..... rarely smiles........ I don't understand!! Hope that he would be a happy boy and smile more......

Release Tongue Tie Operation

尋晚幾經辛苦, 3am先瞓得著........
搞到今朝幾經辛苦先起到身, 都已經8am.........
拿拿聲起身梳洗, around 8:45am出門口....... 落到街...... 竟然落雨...... 冇帶遮....... 同婆婆一齊出咁多次街都未落過雨, 今日得我地兩仔乸先至黎落雨????

基本上帶咗遮都冇用, 因為根本冇手拎...... 唯有抱實aiden快步行去的士站, 仲得一架的士...... 點知說時遲那時快, 唔知响邊度衝咗一個男子出黎而佢, 係有擔遮既, 佢望一望我兩母子, 就跳咗上的士........ 我有諗過呢個男子上到的士會唔會為佢自己呢種咁冇風度, 咁冇同情心既動作而感到可恥?? 我一定要敎導我既小朋友, 即使只係一個小孩, 都首先要學習禮讓, 尤其是要禮讓有需要既人仕, 巴士地鐵上面都黐晒貼紙, 但時下年青人, 中年人, 無論係咩世代既人都絕少有呢種意識, 我覺得好難過........

Luckily, 都好快就有的士!
去到醫院, 先去1/F"日間手術中心"登記, 登記完個姑娘就點咗個嬸嬸同我落G/F pay deposit 同埋攞藥...... 俾完deposit個嬸嬸叫我坐低等佢攞藥, 其間佢個醫院專用電話響, 電話中人(我估係頭先個姑娘)同佢講話要同bb磅重先, 係喎, 尋日Dr Tsang都講過話要磅咗重先去攞藥, 因為要跟據aiden既重量去開瞓覺藥既! 唉.... 成班人都唔知做乜...... 咁又點番我上1/F磅重, aiden重4.69kg, 個嬸嬸仲响度等我同bb著番件衫, 我咪同佢講, 你唔駛等我啦, 你拎個重量落去藥房攞藥先啦, 我心諗: 我抱住個bb唔落去啦, 我自己亦都識路番番去"日間手術中心"囉!!!! 點知我真係覺得自己做得好啱, 因為我幫bb著好晒衫之後, 個姑娘又話"仲"要量血壓.... 唉.... 做乜事做少少嘢要分幾part黎做?? 不過個姑娘對aiden都好溫柔, 值得讚賞!

搞完晒磅重量血壓, 我就帶番aiden番去"日間手術中心", 跟住有個姑娘帶咗我地入一間房仔, 問我一d基本問題, 例如bb最近呢個星期有冇發燒呀, 有冇離開過香港, 有冇對藥物或食物敏感等等呢d例牌問題...... 跟住就係等d藥送上黎......... 等等等等等........ 到d瞓覺藥黎到時都唔知幾多點, 我聽到d姑娘响出面話"要快d餵喇, 差唔多喇, 要快手d....." 跟住有兩個姑娘入黎, 其中一個姑娘提出幫我餵, 當然佢地餵會比我餵快好多, 老實講我都冇乜信心.....
:( 我估d藥應該幾難食, 因為aiden喊得好嘈, 又每一啖都漏番d出黎, 要食2支針筒咁多......... 食咗起碼有5分鐘, 佢個樣都幾痛苦, 喊到收唔到聲..... 食完姑娘就叫我盡快靄佢瞓..... 盡快? 我盡力啦!! 當時我個心係咁諗: 如果婆婆响度就好喇, 佢應該會好快手囉....... 不過我都不負所託, 响10點前都可以靄到佢瞓, 10:03am Dr Tsang到咗, 到大概10:10am就叫我抱bb過去手術室, 放低咗aiden落手術床之後, 姑娘就用毛巾將aiden捲住, 只係露出個頭, 有成5個姑娘响度, 跟住就叫我出番去頭先間房仔度等...... 幾分鐘之後, 就聽到小寶淒慘既叫喊聲..... 我企咗响房仔既門口度再聽清楚, 究竟係咪我個仔既喊聲呢?? 成間日間手術中心都係得我個仔一個baby, 呢d喊聲梗係佢嫁啦, 姑娘見我呆呆咁企咗响度, 就叫我入番房仔話唔好聽住d喊聲, 我會好心痛, 跟住佢就關咗我度門! 冇錯, 真係會好心痛, 就咁我就企咗响房仔入面眼濕濕, 其實隔住度門都聽到佢淒涼既喊聲囉....... 過咗幾分鐘 (我都唔知係幾多分鐘, 但彷彿係好耐咁)我又開番度門, 想睇下幾時先做完手術出黎, 我真係好心急囉..... 由手術室門口既玻璃窗度見到有個姑娘响度來回踱步, 喊聲停咗, 相信姑娘係抱緊小寶安撫緊佢..... 冇幾耐, 醫生+成班姑娘抱番aiden出黎俾我, 當我抱番佢既時候, 見到佢成個口都係血...... oh my god 我既眼淚又忍唔住流咗出黎..... 點解我小寶咁細個就要受呢個苦?? 醫生話幫佢剪入d費事剪得唔夠入又要黎做多次 (well, 我聽唔明佢講乜, 乜唔係剪夠就得喇咩? 因咩事要剪入d呢? 都唔知會唔會有影響??) 所以有血流要電咗兩下去幫佢止血! 小寶一邊响度喊, 合唔埋個口, 成口血, 我覺得好痛囉...... 跟住醫生叫我抱下佢安撫下佢先, 佢轉頭再黎睇下佢止唔止到血....... 咁我又响度抱住佢靄佢..... 過咗一陣, 個醫生就入黎睇佢, 話冇再流血, 可以俾少少水佢睇下佢飲唔飲, 咁我問佢唔係餵奶咩, 佢話都得, 如果佢係醒既話就可以俾奶佢食...... 跟住佢就話去巡房先, 一陣再黎睇下bb有冇唔舒服..... 咁我就俾咗少少水小寶飲, 佢飲咗少少水跟住我再靄下佢瞓, 後尾瞓著咗我就等醫生黎睇咗佢冇乜特別嘢就帶咗小寶去俾錢攞止痛藥, 就番屋企了! 呢個咁既Dr Tsang話如果冇流血, 個口冇臭味, 冇乜其他異樣就唔駛再番去覆診喎! 如果唔肯食奶就即是代表佢傷口痛, 可以食d止痛藥咁話!

番到屋企飲完奶, 佢都表現得好似唔係幾like, 唔係幾happy, 又keep住勁喊啦..... 可能痛呀!!! 但婆婆話唔駛食止痛藥住, 再睇下先, 我諗係因為婆婆唔想佢一日裡面食咁多藥..... 都啱既, 所以我都聽婆婆話, 睇定d先......

so far 都okay, 剛做完利尖有點紅點都散咗, 利底仲係有一撻白色, 冇再流血, 口亦好香......

唔知係咪錯覺, aiden做完手術條利好似肥咗, 之前一直都覺得係利尖尖咁........ 咦, 終於都有樣嘢係似媽咪喇, hahaha

紀念品(只因為係佢個名所以先留來紀念, 絕非係紀念呢個手術!)

姚霆章

aiden,

Yesterday, Dec 14, daddy and I went to take the Birth Certificate for you aiden boy.
Now finally you have your name 姚霆章, IU TING JEUNG AIDEN

yes finally mommy decided to put "AIDEN" on your Birth Certificate, I was hesitating if I should put "AIDEN" on it because I was worrying if you may not like Aiden this name which we named for you.

Aiden was named when you're still in mommy's tummy, you were about 3 months large..... after the doctor confirmed you're a boy, mommy started to think about your english name and let daddy choose. You would be Jason, Kaiden, Jaiden, Daniel......... but finally daddy only nodded when I suggested "AIDEN"....... this is your name's story.

When you're born, both daddy and mommy think that you look fit this name, really, cuz you're cute and Aiden is a cute name (maybe you do not agree but anyway we think this way)

Hope that you would love this english name when you're growing up, but if you really don't like it and want to change one you like better, mommy would feel okay! Really really, frankly you have your own right to "choose" in your long life, including your name(s)! But better discuss with your daddy before you decided, we just want to be notified, not to vote or to give idea, please bear in mind!

love,
mommy

利筋問題

今日終於去咗仁安睇咗兒科Dr Lau refer 果個耳鼻喉科Dr Tsang, 佢話aiden條利筋係算生得前, 都好大機會會黐利筋...... 佢話個手術好簡單, 可以揀而家做, 亦可以等佢識講嘢時證實咗係黐利筋先做...... (呢d我之前其實都已經考慮過晒, 決定咗襯佢細個做咗佢先約呢位Dr Tsang見面) 我問Dr Tsang可唔可以安排今日即刻做埋, 可惜佢今日appointment full晒, 最快要明天, 所以最後我預約咗明天早上10am

雖然只係小手術, 但都有d嘢要prepare, 好似要aiden空肚去 (呢個真係有難度, 要隻大食豬空肚...... 佢又拆天都似), 仲要早一個hour到, 因為要食少少瞓覺藥, 話等佢暈暈地唔會反抗得咁勁>~< 最後係準備一餐奶奶等佢做完手術出黎即飲, 可以令佢忘記傷痛咁話(呢個响我向第二個出面既醫生查詢時個姑娘亦係咁講)...... 之前個兒科話細個做唔需要落麻醉藥, 原來都係會落少少, 係噴既麻醉藥, Dr Tsang話好安全..... 咁, 我都要信醫生啦.......

unfortunately, 婆婆明天早上亦有一個appointment - 有人黎整屎塔, so 明天只有我自己帶bb去醫院, 唉..... 好擔心添..... 要餵藥(瞓覺藥), 未試過, 唔知自己掂唔掂, 又唔知姑娘會唔會幫手...... 唔知bb會唔會痛呢? 做完手術會唔會唔舒服呢? 食完d瞓覺藥唔知會唔會瞓好耐, 瞓咗做完手術出到黎唔知飲唔飲到奶呢? 咦, 我d新奶樽要啜先出奶嫁喎..... 係咪應該要拎番d舊奶樽出黎用呢? 但係又未消毒添......

我失眠呀!!! 11點幾瞓落床, 到而家2點幾都未瞓得著.......
mommy你要堅強d呀, 明天得你一個, 你要照顧小寶嫁..........
okay....... 我會ok的!
daddy呢? daddy出咗trip呀, 去咗上海, 要thursday先番, 起碼friday先有機會見面了...... 佢都因為呢個手術仔佢唔能夠响我地身邊而非常內疚, 佢真係一個傻daddy, 我地都冇怪過佢...... 不過可能到friday小寶已經唔記得咗佢係乜水lu, 成4日冇見, hohohohoho

滿月

今日係aiden既滿月大日子, unfortunately daddy 病咗........... wed daddy黎食飯已話我知佢作病, 第二日佢已經趕去睇醫生, 佢不斷強調佢唔可以病喎..... 但今日第三日都未有好轉, 希望明天會好d啦..... 應該會既.... 希望在明天吖嘛.......

look at daddy, he looks so sick........ :(

aiden is sleeping, haha funny face~~
P.S. DADDY黎既時候全程有戴mask嫁, 只係影相時除咗咋.....

this is my first cake from mommy, it's yummy but I cannot eat :(

婆婆製造的"紅雞蛋", 滿月必備喎, 整咗成打唔知搵邊個食.....

aiden 滿月時既樣貌~

Aiden's First time of Sleeping @ Home

Last Sat, 帶咗aiden番home, 經過兩日既煎熬, 我發現咗一樣嘢 - 唔可以睇小一個小生命既威力.....

佢可以令一個平時粗枝大葉, 做人做事只會衝衝衝, 例如衝動, 衝鋒陷陣, 衝口而出... 等等.... 既daddy變得好細心, 好有耐性, 真係意料之外!

這兩天, daddy幫了很多很大忙, 餵奶, 掃風, 靄瞓覺...... 連mommy幫bb換片片時daddy都有幫手遞尿片, 濕紙巾同pat pat cream, 真係唔該晒..... many many thanks daddy, you're so nice~~

daddy幫aiden掃風, so sweet~~

music mobile

今日出去洗頭(坐月以來都只係洗咗5次頭:p) 4/5日洗一次都係我既極限...... 一早都計劃咗洗完頭去買咗個music mobile俾aiden豬, 即係掛响床仔度轉轉轉又有音樂果d........

左揀右揀行咗幾間舖先揀到幾個合眼緣既....... 最後揀剩2款出黎 (其實我只係揀吊住既公仔靚唔靚) 有我最鐘意既淺啡色bearbear, 最grand, 另一個係唔知兔仔定咩colorful d但d公仔就好似麻麻地得意 (不過其餘果d仲核突)......

左諗又諗, 記得好似話bb會鐘意d colorful d既嘢......... ???

好啦, 咁就要核突兔仔啦 :(

跟手問下個sales係咪全部d音樂都係一樣, 佢話唔係, 咁我問可唔可以試聽啦, 佢話得喎......

當個sales正去拆盒嘢俾我試聽之際, 我見到同一個牌子但唔同款 (我都唔記得個款係有咩唔同, 但個盒係唔同size既), 係小丑公仔又colorful又ok得意喎, 點解頭先睇唔到 -_-""

當個sales番黎既時候我就唯有扮嘢問下佢試晒3款得唔得啦...... 佢話可以喎 :) good

跟住去試聽......... 幾乞人憎呀, 我覺得個至grand bear bear既music係最好聽囉, 叫人點揀啫???

最後...... 我都係買咗個小丑music mobile -_-"

沿路番屋企一路諗唔知小寶會唔會唔like呢個小丑既music呢?? 唉.... 咁我買至grand bear bear咪好囉......

反思: 我呢個小寶究竟會鐘意邊一類既玩具, 邊一類既music, 我到而家都仲未捉到路......... 唉.... 呢個媽咪真失敗!!

咦... 好彩佢都幾鐘意啫.....

I love mama

今日係aiden豬第一次同我示愛, 我覺得好冧呀!!

小寶, 雖然你未識講嘢, 但你對mama既love, mama收到晒!!!!

奶咀 - 給沒有安全感的小寶

已經10日冇寫blog, 湊仔既生活真係唔容易! 每一日既時間都過得好快, 起身, 食早餐, 泵奶, 湊仔, 食晏, 泵奶, 餵奶, 湊仔, 泵奶, 同仔仔沖涼, 餵奶, 湊仔, 食晚飯, 邊睇電視邊湊仔餵奶, 瞓覺, 半夜起身餵奶, 靄豬仔, 瞓覺, 晨早起身餵奶, 靄豬仔, 瞓覺, 跟住又起身, 食早餐.......

日日如是, 只係餵奶既時間會浮動d, 因為仲未fix到個schedule, aiden通常未夠鐘食奶就會嘈, 唔知佢係扭抱定扭食..... 未夠一個月已經俾盡咗佢120ml, 醫生已經話唔可以再加, 因為一個new born既胃仔根本就負荷唔到......

尋日, 全日條友仔都瞓唔到覺, 日喊夜喊, 全日都瞓唔到幾個小時, 我抱就肯定唔制, 連婆婆抱都瞓唔到, 真係冇晒符...... 佢個樣又好似肚餓咁, 但又好似係好眼瞓咁, 真係唔知佢會唔會係有邊度唔舒服...... 到夜晚11點幾佢都係瞓唔到, 我唯有妥協, 出最後一招 - 奶咀, 果然, 佢啜啜下就瞓著咗, 雖然我萬個唔願意, 但都已經冇晒辦法........

平時朝早佢通常都唔願瞓, 要婆婆抱, 就算瞓咗, 放落highchair佢都好快會扎醒, 今日我又出動奶咀, 佢竟然好好瞓, 佢一瞓著我就拎番個奶咀出黎, 但佢就會好快扎醒....

結論: 仔仔係一個好冇安全感既人, 其他環境因素不變, 婆婆繼續响廚房度bing ling bang lan, 但有奶咀安撫住佢竟然可以瞓得好冧....... 當然, 我會盡量嘗試响唔俾奶咀佢既情況下靄佢瞓, 因為真係唔想佢依賴咗個奶咀.... 尋晚真係好迫於無奈, 見到佢瞓唔到覺勁扭計真係戥佢辛苦!!

第二個結論: 如果佢係肚餓, 喊係為咗要食既時候, 塞個奶咀俾佢係唔得既....... 咁為咗要佢瞓番多d, 要食奶咀都冇辦法, 再係瞓得咁少, aiden好快就會好似媽咪咁, 有一對熊貓眼加一對大眼袋..... 咁就唔cute嫁喇 :(